How do eyes embrace? To approach truth one must get as far from it as possible. To touch “the real” one must create the illusion. One must commit to the illusion. One must maintain the illusion.

You grab a woman, when you grab a woman, by the eyes, with the eyes. You hold her. Practice it overtly. There’s a certain charm in that, in the lack of subtly, the lack of expertise... as if you're naively playing or trying out a newly acquired talent or trying to impress a potential love interest with the party trick your bartender used on you last night – throwing out the hook unguardedly, disarmingly, and then, head bowed, peering up for the response, any response, any response.

That’s all we really want in the end — people to respond to us.

If you want to fuck a woman you must learn to respond to all of her. You must let your actions mutually come as responses to each other. You must always be responding, and treasure that response. Breathe by it.

If you want people to hear your screams, you must learn to respond to others, especially as they respond to you. You must always be aware that your screams are not simply sucked into a vacuum.

Bow your head a lot. Allow people to think of you, peering up from a bowed head, peering up to hold their eyes, searchingly, pleadingly, so beautific. How could anyone not want to embrace that?

Know the tricks. Know them well from unpolished experience. Explore their depths, their full potential. That requires follow through.

How far can you take it? You can hold a woman’s eyes so that you can simply fuck her. You can make her believe. That’s a skill. Step One.
Step Two: You must believe it as well.
Step Three: Hold it.
Continue. Always continue step three. If it falls through, return to step one, and follow through. Nothing is eternal. Engage, and when it's time, engage no longer. Back to step one.

[[Follow through – it’s all follow through.]]