A relationship is not a noun; it’s a verb. It has momentum. From the moment you meet someone you start getting closer to that person. With every conversation, every date, every kiss, you are both moving toward each other. That movement creates a momentum. You have sex. Eventually, you have a toothbrush in each other’s homes. Maybe you share a toothbrush. You get closer. You move in together. You see all the things you don’t usually show, because you cannot keep pretenses forever. You reveal yourselves. And you each accept this, or at least bare it. You get closer. And it goes on and on. It’s evolution… in motion. It’s always changing.